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9 Lies Men Tell Women And What They Are Hiding

More often than not, women are guilty of lying about their physical appearance, their age, their weight and their level of education. On the other hand, with men, they more so lie about various other reasons. Below is a list of most common lies men tell to women . Have you heard any of these while lies yourself?

1. You are my first love.

Men fall so easily, and they think they have fallen in love with every woman they meet. “You are my first true love” is so commonly used amongst broken men. They use this to impress you, so you will fall hard for them.

 2. “I am sorry.” Often time, quite frequently, men will say “I am sorry”, even when they are not, just to keep a smooth sailing relationship. More often than not, they say they are sorry, but deep down, they do not mean it!

3. I’ll call you tomorrow. Such a common lie used often by men. They say it to get off the hook with you, because they don’t have the balls and aren’t man enough to speak the truth and actually say, “Sorry, but I don’t think this is going to work out for me.” They use it as a ploy, to avoid you and to get rid of you quickly.

4. She isn’t that pretty. When you hear your man utter these words, this usually implies that she is pretty to him. Why can’t he just be honest with you? They avoid being honest with you because they do not want the argument, so they choose to lie to your face.

5. You are the most beautiful woman I’ve ever seen. Please! Give me a break – obviously, this isn’t true! Men know that us women are so very cautious about of looks, and they know we want to be admired, so they feed us lines of garbage just to appease us for the moment. Usually, they use these words to impress you.

6. “I am single.” This is such a famous line, for many men! Be careful many men are strong in the dating scene and have no actual regard for any of their “partners”. However, when men tell us they are single, it implies to us that they are available and open to a relationship, and you are highly misled by their words.

7. “I’m on my way”. This is a common line typically thrown out to women to lead you on that they are coming, but with no intentions of actually showing up! Men also could possibly pull this card on you, and then actually show up, just so they regain control and keep you hook line and sinker!

8. “I’m fine, nothing is wrong” For many men, they have a hard time opening up, especially when something is bothering them, they can’t seem to find the right way to express their feelings, so they hold it in. This is also used as a ploy to protect their egos and avoid any drama over whatever the issue might be. So to a man, it is easier for them to say they’re fine when deep down, they truly aren’t.

9. “You know me, this is how I am”. Typically a man will say this to a woman to avoid topics or uncomfortable situations. However, they are implying that you should know them by now. But that is the problem, they aren’t upfront and honest about their feelings, so you truly don’t know who you are dealing with!

 

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18 thoughts on “9 Lies Men Tell Women And What They Are Hiding

    • This article is very biased. It was written by a woman who
      was obviously done the wrong way more than once by disrespectful guys. Not all men are like this and some of us have been dumped by women that didn’t know how lucky they were until it was too late.

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  • I was a lonely woman when I met a man I thought was a man like no other in my life! I fell hard because he always used the right words! Then one day he posted something on Facebook I thought was very odd because he had never mentioned he felt that way and that he was on antidepressants and only had $10 in his pocket! When I confronted him about this , he said those were “just words” he felt like writing and they weren’t true! It finally hit me that everything he ever said to me were” just words” too! This has hurt me so much! But I find no recourse than to leave him. I truly feel he will be relieved and me, well, at 66 years old I learned a big lesson!

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    • Big Eddie

      Then you will leaving all the men who come your way. The solution is, you should talk it over with him and move ahead. Don’t you think so?

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  • Ahhh im sad now my man does two of these on your list its 8,nd 9 i feel bad for him i love you anthony baby 😘💋

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  • Danielle White

    After two years and thousands of lies, I still don’t know if he is truly in love with me or not. I still love him so, wait and see if I can figure it out.

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    • Wait and see? With thousands of lies don’t waste your time. You are worth so much more than that! Get out. Go out and LIVE your beautiful LIFE! 💜 PEACE, Angie 💜✌🏼

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    • Constantine J

      If he loves you so much he wouldn’t lie to you. He will show how much he loves you. 2 years and thousand lies? He’s not worth a dime. Dump him. Plenty of good guys in this world. Dont wait. Time is ticking. Life is short.
      Happily married man

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  • Danielle White

    I did not realize I had my last name on that.
    Please do not post it .

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  • Mafalda

    isto é incrivelmente mau e generalizado. é impossível conseguir dizer que só um género faz isto ou quer aquilo. se as mulheres querem igualdade têm que ser iguais e pronto. qualquer género e qualquer ser humano já sentiu qualquer sentimento que o outro já sentiu mas em profundidades diferentes. eu aceito todos ❤️

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  • Nathalie Tyrell

    Some of them are true lol

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    • Richard Nickson

      Its somehow natural you know… Men will always be men

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  • I know that feeling i believed 2b truly honest all the time but it’s cost me a gr8 deal of pain & a broken heart many times all cos’ of believing in being HONEST & TRUTHFUL some people don’t like the TRUTH but they have no problem with lying 2u & that goes both ways with WOMEN & MEN even ya OWN FAMILY follow ya HEART

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  • Big Eddie

    Then you will leaving all the men who come your way. The solution is, you should talk it over with him and move ahead. Don’t you think so?

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  • Glenn

    I’m sorry but half the things on this list are bs, don’t apply to all men, and/or apply to many women in today’s society. This entire article sounds like the author hates men. How about having a little more tact with how you word things? This type of writing will help destroy women’s views of men completely. Rubbish and divisive.

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  • And they wonder why you delete and block them. I have heard all the things you mentioned and they want to accuse you of cheating. Lol oh my goodness.

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  • Richard Nickson

    Not withstanding, all men are not the same.

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  • John

    Guys do lie not only because they are not honest but because they are protecting their partner.. Have u ever heard some truth are better left untold. And to keep a truth, u need more lies.

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