Have you ever been so sad that you just want to be left alone, but at the same time, you wish there was someone you could talk to?
I know there have been times when I have been so sad, I wished I was rather angry Then helplessness of being uncontrollably sad can be overwhelming.
I have been there, and to have also had to be strong for others too. It takes a lot for a person to be strong for themselves and others.
There are times when sadness can be so overwhelming. Sadness is not depression, but sadness in its own form.
Have you ever been so sad that you want to be left alone, but at the same time you wish there was somebody to talk to?
A lot of women may understand this because it is one of the signs of PMS, but I am not talking about PMS, I am talking about something that happens to every one of us male or female.
A sadness that permeates the very essence of our lives. That makes us feel so lost, and out of touch with the people that we are supposed to have in our lives.
A sadness that takes our joy away, one that makes us want to be alone. Even though we might not be introverts. And yet this same sadness makes us crave for communion, for communication, for companionship, for conversation.
What an ironic kind of sadness. Unfortunately, I don’t think there’s a name for it, or there might be. Scientists have found a way to name, almost every emotion on Earth.
However, putting a name on something does not make it have a solution. You might be experiencing this kind of sadness, here’s the truth :You are not the only one. You are not alone. I understand how you feel. I understand what you are going through. And that is why I can boldly tell you that it gets better than this. It gets better than what you’re going through right now.
You will not always be this sad. You will not always be this confused. You will not always need to be alone yet crave companionship. There will be days when you are happy, more than the days you’d be sad.
Do I have any advice for you? Yes
Do not let sadness when. Yes, you want to be alone. Yes, you do not wish to talk to anybody. But talking to somebody would help, talking to a person who you trust would actually lift your spirit, will actually help you get things in focus. And I pray for you that as you go through this tough time that you’ll be surrounded by the right people who know just the right thing to say who can show you what it means to be loved.
Even when we feel we don’t need anyone. And I pray that those days are short and find between and become fewer and fewer.
Happy days I coming. There will be days when you will no longer remember the sad days. There will be moments when you don’t remember those days. May the happy days be more than the sad days.